Things to say to abusers to block their attacks/lies/gaslighting/manipulation
- This decision will affect me more than you, so I get to decide.
- It’s not your call.
- I think it’s been enough of me suffering the consequences of your decisions.
- I’m not obliged to answer those questions.
- You don’t have the right to say that to me.
- Stop lying.
- Not even you believe that.
- We both know the truth.
- Now why would you say such a thing to me?
- That is not a thing you should be saying to someone you pretend to love.
- You saying it over and over again doesn’t make it true.
- You know you’re lying.
- Sounds like whatever is convenient to you is always the truth huh?
- You don’t have the right to demand this information.
- Would it kill you to stop talking to me in this manner?
- Is it hard to not insult people around you?
- Who do you think you’re talking to?
- We’re going to talk when you can adress me as a person.
- Based on your track record, you don’t seem to know me that well.
- And you know this because?
- Oh yeah you really, really took in all the evidence before making that claim.
- You expect me to believe that?
- Evidently you’re too much of a liar to be taken seriously.
- How about we focus on what you did wrong for a change?
- Don’t expect forgiveness from me.
(I understand you can’t get away with most of this most of the time but here’s to dreaming)
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sometimes i get a little stressed out because i’m living in a part of history that’ll one day be talked about and discussed and papers written and what am i doing? what have i done? laundry, barely
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concept: me gently sipping tea in a quiet bright cafe, I aced my exams and the bees are safe
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